Heinsight Counsellor
Friends why you do what you do is not totally hereditary; enough with the ‘generational fables’ of: “that is how we act in our family, I can’t help it”.
You have absolute control of what you make of your hereditary trait, and of what you turn out to be. Lemons are still being turned to lemonade: there is no excuse why something good/great can’t emanate from your ‘Nazareth’ [1John 45-46]
Don’t get it twisted, it is whatsoever you permit that gains access into your life, and it is whatsoever you allowed that becomes an ‘allowance’ in your affair.
Just as what you eat is what gives strength to your body: so also, it is what you feed your sense organs, they will act on. There’s no generational linkage to these.
This is therefore the conclusion of the matter:
Whatsoever the eyes feed on, becomes a seed in the ‘soil of the heart’: soon to germinate to action.
Whatsoever the ears perpetually listen to, becomes an ‘anthem of the heart’: soon to find expression on the tongue.
And whatsoever the tongue continually taste, becomes a sweet recipe to the taste bud: soon to become ‘its addiction’.
Luke 6:45 KJV
“A good man out of the GOOD TREASURE OF HIS HEART bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh”.
Proverbs 4:23-27KJV
Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life….[READ FULL]
Therefore check what you permit: for this is what will stay in your life. And check what you ‘look at’, because that is what you will ‘look like’. SHALOM.