Heinsight Counsellor


Friends why you do what you do is not totally hereditary; enough with the ‘generational fables’ of: “that is how we act in our family, I can’t help it”.

You have absolute control of what you make of your hereditary trait, and of what you turn out to be. Lemons are still being turned to lemonade: there is no excuse why something good/great can’t emanate from your ‘Nazareth’ [1John 45-46]

Don’t get it twisted, it is whatsoever you permit that gains access into your life, and it is whatsoever you allowed that becomes an ‘allowance’ in your affair.

Just as what you eat is what gives strength to your body: so also, it is what you feed your sense organs, they will act on. There’s no generational linkage to these.

This is therefore the conclusion of the matter:

Whatsoever the eyes feed on, becomes a seed in the ‘soil of the heart’: soon to germinate to action.

Whatsoever the ears perpetually listen to, becomes an ‘anthem of the heart’: soon to find expression on the tongue.

And whatsoever the tongue continually taste, becomes a sweet recipe to the taste bud: soon to become ‘its addiction’.

Luke 6:45 KJV
“A good man out of the GOOD TREASURE OF HIS HEART bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh”.

Proverbs 4:23-27KJV
Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life….[READ FULL]

Therefore check what you permit: for this is what will stay in your life. And check what you ‘look at’, because that is what you will ‘look like’. SHALOM.



Heinsight Counsellor


Oh my dear Child, I have few words to say to you. And to this I pray that you hearken, that you lay them to heart: for they’re priceless wisdom from the Master. They’re not to be traded for gold!

My Child, your first resistance to sin is the easiest; sin gets harder to resist once you give in to your first. So don’t wake the ‘dog’ you can’t put back to sleep.

My Child, your first fall in your zeal to walk is always the most painful, so get up and walk again. Don’t let the scare of falling hinder you from taking new steps.

My Dear Child, your first attempt at any good course is the toughest, so don’t stop trying should you fail the first time.

Oh my Child, the first cut is often the deepest; but try to love again and again: For it is in the fullness of love, your healing begins.

Oh my dear Child, your first taste of freedom and riches are the easiest for you to squander. So be mindful of how you spend them when they come by: they are to be Invested and managed.

[Freedom and riches are not oceans that doesn’t run dry. They are birds that fly away when their cage is let loose].

My Child, the first friends you make are your first practical trainers on how to treat your peers: they will show you whether to treat them with cruelty or with compassion. So choose your friends carefully, because they can shape your perception of life.

My dear Child, your first years of decisions are the most sensitive years of your life: they are the weakest link in ‘your ladder’ to the topmost top. So fill your first years of decisions with your Creator’s instructions: and you will not stumble.

Oh my dear Child, the world may tell you stolen bread is sweet, and that corrupt waters satisfy the thirst. But the day you taste of their bread, will be your first in a life of ceaseless lack; and the hour you drink of their waters, will be your first in the begining of your unquenchable thirst.

[So don’t steal to satisfy your hunger and don’t corrupt still waters to quench your thirst].

Finally my dear Child hearken to the instructions of thy father and forsake not the counsel of thy mother: For they shall be an ornament of grace unto thy head, and chains about thy neck.
May God do help you in Jesus name.
[READ Proverbs 1:8-33]



Heinsight Counsellor


Friends are you aware our life is shaped by the sum of our daily action or non-action? We become what we consciously and unconsciously do on daily basis [and this is how habits are formed]. 

Therefore my friend, intentionally look into your daily life pattern, style or habit: for it is key to becoming the best God has purposed you to be. 

So kindly pay daily attention to these warnings:

Don’t forget to start your day with prayer, lest you fall into temptation and frustration.

Don’t get too busy over personal pursuit, lest you forget to put God’s pursuit first.

Don’t live too big for God, lest you relegate the prompting of the Holy Spirit.

Don’t get too judgemental of people, lest you forget you were saved by grace. 

Don’t make excuses for yourself, lest you forget you are called to soul winning. 

Don’t get too rich in your own eyes, lest you forget you have nothing of your own self.

Don’t forget to seek first the Kingdom of God, lest you miss out in the Kingdom of God.

Don’t end your day without thanking God, lest you forfeit His mercy & faithfulness for the next day.

Finally don’t get disconnected from God, lest you die in the midst of your age.

John 15:5-6 KJV:
I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing. [6] If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered; and men gather them, and cast them into the fire, and they are burned.



Heinsight Counsellor


Beloved, rejoice in the Lord for your long awaited year has began. But note that some routine/new decisions will be served on your table, required of you to make or take.

Please don’t take this as ‘business as usual’, because this year will produce great & bountiful harvest unto all that make wise and godly decisions.

How then can you make wise and godly decisions?

First you need to know that there is what the scripture calls earthly wisdom(often known as ‘street smartness’), sensual wisdom(often called common sense), devilish wisdom(evil sense), and the wisdom that is from above called godly wisdom — that which brings good success, joy and fulfillment: This is the one you are to pray to receive and strive to make use of.

Having established this truth, you therefore need to examine the wisdom you apply to any situation/decision:

If it be without sin/corruption,
If it be peaceful,
If it does not impose or demand force,
If it’s kind and easy on the recipient,
If it be merciful,
If it produces good fruits, void of greed and
If it be without partiality & hypocrisy.

If all these are in place in your decisions, then you can be rest assured you are operating under godly wisdom. And without fail, you will reap its bountiful harvest. [James 3:13-18, Proverbs 24:13-14]

Happy New Year!



Heinsight Counsellor


My friend, things may not be as you wanted them to be right now; and the event of things may not be happening according to your plans. But please take it easy, relax, and you will soon understand why if you will trust God on the matter.

The life we live is not designed or controlled by the physical things around us: don’t get physical about the matter. Neither is the situation of events happening around us determined by our plans: The Earth is the Lord’s and the fullness thereoff, the World and they that dwell therein…[Psalm 24].

It’s no wonder Science makes excuses for what they have no control over. Excuses like:
‘Assuming no heat loss’. ‘Neglecting Air Resistance’. ‘Ceteris paribus’…and so many other funny excuses.

Dear beloved, perhaps you are greatly troubled for your present situation, please be careful for nothing but through prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God [Philippians 4:6].

You will soon understand why the matter is what it is now. How? Because we live our lives ‘forward’, but we only understand the details of every passing moment ‘backward’:

[This simply mean, we may not understand why the things that happened at the moment happened, but after we have sincerely gone past it, we often tend to understand/see why those things happened — either to give us a better opportunity, make us a better person or save us from the wrath to come].

You are not alone my friend, Joseph the dreamer never understood why he had to go through these ordeals: ‘the Pit’, ‘Portiphar’, and ‘through the Prison’. But he understood it better when he finally got to the Palace to save the day [Genesis 50:20].

Finally my dear beloved, be not deceived, the spiritual controls the physical! This is why Jesus Christ made the statement:
…Whatsoever ye shall BIND[present tense] on earth shall be BOUND[past tense] in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall LOOSE[presently] on earth shall be LOOSED[concluded] in heaven [Matthew 18:18 KJV].

Please take control of the events around you, engage the spiritual weapon made available unto you — Prayer and Thanksgiving. And you will soon understand why, because you shall overcome.



Heinsight Counsellor


Oh rejoice the King is born
Shalom, the Prince has come
Make a joyful noise, your victory is done
Sing aloud His praise, the kingdom is won.

He is the Well that never runs dry:
So come fetch!
He is the Bread of life:
So come eat!

He is the begotten Son — whom the Father delight
Oh come let us adore Him
He is the living Water — that quenches all thirst
Oh come taste and see

Rejoice rejoice, the Messiah is here
So come to Him all ye that are His, without fear
Merry, make merry the veil is torn
You and I can now approach His Throne without being weary.

Merry Christmas!
Jesus Christ, the reason for the season. Celebrate HIM!



Heinsight Counsellor


It’s no secret the King of kings permited His only begotten Son — Heir to His Throne — to be born in a manger, for the redemption of you and I; what then would He not do to have you and I enjoy the good life:

He has taken away your eternal shame with His humbling birth, not considering His royalty.

He has brought an end to Israel’s long awaited expectations, and had exceeded her imaginations — being our salvation.

He has put an end to man’s gloomy dark night with a shout of joy from Heaven and had brought glad tidings unto man kind.

He has made a way of escape for you[that call Him Lord], from the ambush of your enemies; and had disappointed the devices of all ‘Herod’ that plotted against your life[ Yes you His beloved].

He is the reason for the season. He is the Love of the Father towards human; teaching us to show love, by giving, sharing and caring.

He has shown us to share our bread with the hungry, to make room for the homeless, to stretch forth our ‘hands of hope’ to the fatherless, to clothe the naked, to visit those in prison, to give support to the weak and to help the Widows in their affliction.

Beloved, I therefore enjoin you to celebrate the birth of the King of kings; to commemorate the reign of the King of Glory — the Messiah, Saviour of the Universe, Jesus Christ the Son of God — by showing raw love the Father’s way.

Therefore please shed away all your worries, pain and burdens in order for you to cherish the peace, mercy and good-will this season of love offers us all. SHALOM.



Heinsight Counsellor


My friend, no one doubts what he sees, tastes or touches: There is therefore no doubt Lime is sour, and the fruit Orange is sweet; and as a result, a Child will prefer to pluck Orange from a tree than to pluck Lime, especially if he or she has tasted both before.

But if such a Child is given an Orange seed, he won’t appreciate it because he can’t directly eat or see what to do with it: thus he sees no value in it.

Likewise is your potential [your talent, skill or gift] my friend. It is a seed that no one or very few will value or appreciate, especially when it hasn’t yielded any fruit (good work).

People only value and appreciate the FRUIT OF YOUR POTENTIAL, and this is what attracts you favour before Men and before God.

Remember Proverbs 18:16 KJV says: “A man’s gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men”.

Your potential is your gifting that makes room for you before men: diligently put it to work as a seed sowed on fertile soil; and you will definitely reap it’s reward without fail.

And most importantly, crave to first find favour before God than before men; this is achievable if only you will bear the fruit of the spirit alongside the fruit of your potential.

Daniel is an example for you to emulate: he bore fruit of the Spirit, and God brought him into favour and tender love before Himself[God] and before men. Daniel 1:8-9 KJV.

Therefore bear the fruit of the spirit and attract favour both in Heaven and on Earth.

Proverbs 3:3-4 KJV: “Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart: [4] So shalt thou find favour and good understanding in the sight of God and man”.
[Read Gal 5:22-23, to see the list of the fruits of the Spirit, you need to bear]. SHALOM



Heinsight Counsellor


My friend you have stayed too long at this mountain; when will you match on to conquer new grounds?

John you have celebrated your achievements for too long, it has now become to you a hinderance preventing you from achieving greater milestones. Drop that accolade and press on towards new heights!

Dora you have held too tight to that thing you ‘dearly love’; check your knuckles they’ve all gone white — soon to turn bruised — and all this while, you have allowed numerous opportunities pass you by. Do let go, and let God.

Claire you have denied yourself of the Truth for too long; for how long will you run away from Jesus Christ — The Way, The Truth and the Life. Can’t you see He is in everything good around you!

Daisy you have held on to your dark past for too long, when will you let go the pain of your past? Don’t you know Love and Mercy awaits you?

Nathaniel you have chased too hard for that position, and it has made you lose sense of human feelings. When will you realise, God is the judge of all: He puts down one and sets up another [Psalm 75:7]

Laura for too long you have thought you won’t amount to something good in life; when will you shed away this yoke of despair. Don’t you know greatness is yours for grabs if you will allow Hope have its way?

Patrick you have condemned yourself for too long; how long more will you allow the devil make a fool of you? Please be aware there is therefore now no condemnation to them that are in Christ Jesus..[Romans 8:1].
God isn’t condemning you, He is only beckoning unto you to come: be saved.

Dear Beloved for how long will you be quiet about the message of the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ, and for how long will you bury the talents He has committed to your trust. His coming is at hand, what will be your excuse to the Master!

Finally My friend are you the John, Dora, Claire, Daisy, Laura, Nathaniel or Patrick been spoken about? For how long will you allow that mountain fazing you to intimidate you; please check yourself, and say to that mountain to be moved in Jesus name.



Heinsight Counsellor


Beloved, nothing at all should ever be written off: Even the born blind eyes, that one would think can do nothing, can still shed tears [Don’t be mistaken, not all tears are to be refused. There is one of joy to be coveted].

Not all bad occurrence/event in your life is as a result of your sin or the iniquities of your fathers. There are some the Lord has purposed to use for His glory if you will allow Him. [Ask Mary, Martha and Lazarus].

Don’t surrender to self condemnation. The Lord is not condemning you. Rather He is beckoning to you to come for cleansing and for His glory.

Don’t let anyone ever write you off. Give no room for any moral-depressing, confidence-damaging jargons thrown at you.

Those who throw these at you, can’t see who you truly are. They don’t have the details of what you are created for. And they won’t have a say in what you become, if you don’t ‘prepare/harrow your soil for their seeds to grow’.

“Can any good come out of Nazareth”, so they said in the days of Jesus Christ [John 1:46]. Yet The Good that came of Nazareth is still making all things beautiful in His time. [Ecclesiastes 3:11]

“Is not this the carpenter, the son of Mary…” [Mark 6:3]. Yet The Carpenter has furnished the best ‘human prototype’ — one that anyone desiring to see the Father must copy.

No one has seen your end, not even a prophet. You are not a ‘see-finish’. That knowledge is privy only to God your Maker. Therefore don’t write yourself off because of what someone said of you. Instead ask God what is He saying of you.

You are a beautiful story in the making. Soon you will be told to the glory of the name of the Lord. So be glad and rejoice because eyes have not seen what the Lord purposed to make of you.
Praise ye the Lord. Halleluyah!

Micah 7:8 KJV
Rejoice not against me, O mine enemy: when I fall, I shall arise; when I sit in darkness, the Lord shall be a light unto me.



Heinsight Counsellor


There isn’t any mistake in the title, it’s the truth: Whatever will be will NOT be. We are humans and not nature, so It is what you make be that will be. Sorry this is what it is.

‘Que sera sera’ is a resignation to fate — an embargo to faith. It’s a resignation to defeat — defeat before a fight. A lie disguised in self pity, propagated with melody and sobriety; sang and mused by majority.

It’s a tool for the slothful to stay indolent, a rest bed for the sluggard to catch some more sleep, and a succour for the weary to seek repose. It’s the devil’s trick card to hinder you from being the best you are designed to be: to make you hit below par.

What will be will not be!

Haven’t you heard the saying, ‘.. the Kingdom of Heaven suffereth violence, and the VIOLENT taketh it by force’? [Matthew 11:12] Or this saying: ‘Seest thou a man DILIGENT in his business, he shall stand before king; he shall not stand before mean men’ [Proverbs 22:29]

Therefore what will be will not be! It is what you make be or do not make be that will be. What you become, achieve or attain is decided by you, not one invisible fate.

You are the creator of your own future. That is why you are created to have free will, to make decision and to live with the consequence of all your actions and decisions — be it good or bad consequence.

No wonder God said in Deuteronomy 30:19 KJV:
‘I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live:’

Finally, what HAS BEEN is what SHALL be as stated in Ecclesiastes 1:9 KJV is a generic statement for all things created under the sun, but not personalized to you. Moreover this does not carry the same interpretation as ‘whatever will be will be’.

It’s interpretation as it relates to human is that there is nothing new any man can be, achieve or attain that does not have a semblance of what has been before him.

Therefore don’t be a victim of fate, waiting for what will be to be. Make what you want, to be, through Christ that strengthens you according to His good & perfect will. Praise the LORD!



Heinsight Counsellor


This is not an eulogy; well, I have never written one before.

This is no tragedy; such is not the epistle of them that love God and them that are the called of God.

And this is no tales by moonlight; they are mostly fictitious and they make children lose sense of reality.

This is: “Lord teach us to number our days that we may apply our heart unto wisdom”.
Having broken the ‘ice’, I hope I was able to get your attention because this is a message you need to hear, and not just to hear but also to ruminate upon.

You know, many generations have gone, some are totally forgotten, some are partially forgotten, while some others can’t be forgotten; and what determines ‘the ballot’ in which these set of people fall into is either:

The memories of their once existence, or the impact they made during their stay.

As for memories, give it time, it will fade away and be forgotten. But for impact it will speak even long after the makers are gone [Be it positive or negative impact].

For instance:
In the Antarctica, where it does not stop snowing, the Sun will always be remembered for the warmth it provides.

And in the desert, where it rarely stop shining, it will be remembered for the excessive heat it bombards when it is gone.

Please know that the above assertion is also very true for human that once walked the surface of the earth [and I am referring to men that made impact]. Now to highlight a few of them:

Jesus Christ has ascended to heaven more than two thousand(2000) years ago, yet His Love impact is still being felt and spoken about till tomorrow. [Yes, Jesus LOVES YOU].

Apostle Paul was long gone before Modern Civilization erupted, yet his Zeal is still reverberating impact in this Modern Age through his messages…

And if the account of men that made lasting impact — not forgotten — were to be written in books, there will be no end to writing [John 21:25].

Therefore my Dear beloved, the question to you and I thence is:

What will you be remembered for when your stay here is over? Or what will you want/like to be remembered for when your time here is done?

Do you want to be remembered for only the memories of your once existence, or do you want to be remembered for the positive impact you contributed during your stay?

Now is the time for you my friend to decide and to get started: now that you’re still here!

“‘Oh Lord please’ teach me to number my days that I may apply my heart unto wisdom” [Psalm 90:12 emphasis mine]. SHALOM



Heinsight Counsellor


My friend you don’t have to be weary. You don’t have to be heavy laden and you don’t have to be stressed. There are better ways to do the works you do. You just need to find them out!

You are weary not because there is no better way of performing the chores you do, neither is it because there are no prudent ways of handling the responsibilities you shoulder; but because you have not taken time out to seek counsel on the better way to go:

Moses was a man of like passion as you are. He was heavy burdened with too much responsibilities — that of a rebellious Nation — which would have broken him down if he wasn’t shown the better way to carrying out his ‘chores’.

Hear this: ‘And Moses’ father in law said unto him, The thing that thou doest is not good. [18] Thou wilt surely wear away, both thou, and this people that is with thee: for this thing is too heavy for thee; thou art not able to perform it thyself alone…’ [Read the full account in Exodus 18:14-26].

Furthermore, you are stressed not because there is no help or support available to you, but because you have ‘refused’ to identify or call unto the right support/help you need per time:

Peter and his colleagues were men of like passion as you are. They initially forgot the presence of the Master in their Boat; and they became greatly perturbed for the bellowing Tempest that threatens to sink their boat, not until they called unto the Prince of Peace for help. [Read full account Mark 4:35-41].

Beloved, it is possible to live a stress-free life. Yes it is, and yes you can!

If any man has the key to a door, he does not need ‘elephant-strength’ to open this door: So in the same vein, you don’t need to stress over anything once you know the better means to getting the job done.

Henceforth my friend, examine the works you do and seek a better way to doing them. And most especially, let the Lord give you rest from all your labour and your heavy burden. Come unto Him today! (Matthew 11:28)



Heinsight Counsellor


Dear Beloved, that your child is not a ‘Kid’; he[she] is a Child!

Isn’t he[she] wonderful and beautiful to listen to, and to have around. I am certain he[she] often help you break a smile when he[she] curls on your side.

That is what children do best to their parents:

They have a soft and gentle way of making the burden of adulthood irrelevant. They’re without worries. They stress for nothing; but hopeful for all good things to come. They are literally full of life.

No wonder they are God’s precious Gift to our world; to further remind us adulthood, and forming maturity with Him, is not getting the job done.

How then can these adoring Gifts be wrongfully and subtly called ‘Kids’. It’s absurdity!

But I know it’s not intentional parents refer to their God given heritage by this heinous slang/informal word, that shares meaning with an animal.

Perhaps they haven’t taken cognizant of the power inherent in names individuals are called or referred to — they are destiny defining. Names often have stronghold on the individual — to the extent of shaping this individual’s attitude and the attributes they possess.

Ask Jacob, the Supplanter. Ask Jabez, the accursed, that makes sorrowful. Ask David, the beloved. Ask Abraham, the Father of ‘Multitude’ and Sarah, the Noble woman.

My friend, If God would change the name of Abram to Abraham, Sarai to Sarah, and Jacob to Israel — and they all went on to fulfill purpose — then this only means God places utmost importance in the names we are called for the actualization of our individual purposes.

More, if an English Proverb — dated back since 18th century — could literally said: ‘give a dog a bad name and hang it’. Wouldn’t it say more of a Child that proceeded from your own loins.

Please don’t let wrong names/slang rob you of your glorious destiny. Even more importantly, don’t rob that your wonderful child of his or her glorious destiny by the heinous names you call him or her. It is ‘criminal’ before God my friend!

Henceforth please consciously unlearn all heinous ‘destiny-verdict’ you subtly pass upon your child, in the name of Civilization, ‘Cute Slang’ or that which is en-vogue.

Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is His reward. Psalm 127:3 KJV



Heinsight Counsellor


There I stood staring into the eyes of this little baby who was peeking over her mother’s shoulder. She also stared intently back at me unfazed.

[This scene was more like having a ‘who-blinks-first-competition’, and the baby won every time I tried to compete].

The moment was surreal and heart-warming — a feel of Heaven — to have a baby’s pure and probing eyes pierce into the eyes of one that has seen more than the mouth can say.

I could only but wonder, what could possibly be running through the mind of this innocent baby. SELAH

Her look was a soothing ointment to the heart, and I didn’t know when I broke into smiles (just as a young lady blushes when teased or flattered). But I wasn’t teased, and it was evident in the baby’s straight-face look (the kind, one can interpret to mean ‘what’s funny’😏)

The more I tried to make her return my smile, the stricter her stern look. And after my several trials to make her return my smile, it then dawn on me her reaction to all my actions was A TALE OF TRUE SINCERITY:

She can’t be bribed. She won’t be cajoled. She won’t be lobbied to resonant to the tune of strangers, regardless of their gimmicks and toys. And a Spade she will call a Spade.

Beloved, such is the heart of babes and sucklings:
‘..Stranger will they not follow, but will flee from him: for they know not the voice of strangers; neither will they listen to the flattery of thieves and corrupt men’ [John 10:5 KJV Emphasis mine].

Friends, we have learnt & practiced so much deceit, gimmicks and flattery; so much that we have mixed and interpreted the voice of Strangers as the voice of the Father.

Such that the Father’s Clarity is a Rarity in the heart of the so called Sons of the Father. Even sincerity amidst the elect is hard to come by this days. SELAH

Dear beloved, it’s time we unlearned the stranger’s culture and recalibrate our minds to the heart of babes and sucklings — the true sons of the Father that will not listen to the flattery and beckon of strangers.

Henceforth let’s get intentional by standing firm, not compromising our faith and values at any cost. MAY GOD HELP US ALL IN JESUS NAME.